Anal Sex Guide for Beginners

A little introduction to the secrets of anal sex

For all beginners in the secrets of anal sex, the first experience is certainly a very important one, it can have a positive or negative form. First impressions are always important, especially when it comes to sex…..

If the first experience was a negative one, it can certainly cause you to give up trying a second time. In this blog article, we will try to explore the subject of anal sex and suggest the best ideas to safely experience everything that involves anal penetration and stimulation.

The benefits of anal sex

The reasons why many partners choose anal sex can be different and multiple. Desire and curiosity about new sexual experiences can be some of the main reasons why partners often try anal sex. Because the nerve endings of the anus are connected by the pelvic muscles, during sexual intercourse, a lot of unsuspected pleasures occur. Also, this way represents an access way to point G, or point P (in the case of men). That is why anal sex is considered a perfect method to experience new types of orgasm. However, some people cannot have an anal penetration orgasm. The secret of successful moments is the simultaneous stimulation of other erogenous zones.

It is always advisable to talk to your partner about anal sex

Before trying anal sex, it is advisable to discuss this new experience with your partner and find out his opinion about this new sexual stimulation. Discuss concerns or restraints and find out if your partner agrees to experience anal penetration. Try to find out together about this topic and document yourself as much as possible if you have any questions, or you are curious to find out certain details. If your partner is reluctant about this topic, try to suggest that he/she experience one of his / her fantasies.

Hygiene

One of the main issues and one of the most common questions that partners who experience anal sex for the first time, is hygiene.
For both partners to be calm from this point of view, make sure that the area is clean.
For best results, we recommend using an anal irrigator before sexual intercourse, and in this way, you can express and experience anal penetration with confidence and without restraint.
It is also recommended to use a condom, to avoid the transmission of diseases by anal.
Hygiene is not only important before anal sex and after sexual intercourse. So, make sure you wash every time, especially if you are going to initiate vaginal sex because there is an increased risk of infection.
This hygiene is applied to the penis, finger, but also sex toys.

Comfort and Pleasure

Another very important aspect to consider by those who are trying anal sex for the first time is the possibility of pain or discomfort because the membranes of the anal cavity are very sensitive.
If this is one of the first experiences of this kind, then it is recommended to start by stroking and massaging the erogenous zone, and after the partner has relaxed, then you can start by inserting a finger, an anal plug, or other small anal toys.
We recommend that you start this game and initiate this foreplay at least a week before trying anal sex.
Another important aspect is not to forget the lubricant, and it must be used every time you initiate anal sex.
We always recommend special anal lubricants, which are designed for anal sex and you can find them right here in our online store.
These lubricants have a more viscous consistency compared to regular lubricants, and they can be the factor that makes the difference between discomfort and pleasure.
You should always pay attention to your partner’s mood, do not hesitate to ask if there is discomfort, and make sure that there are pleasure and enthusiasm throughout sexual intercourse.
A great way to minimize discomfort and pain is to gradually penetrate with your partner. This way, you can control the speed and depth of penetration easily.
The muscles of the sphincter must be relaxed. You need to take a deep breath and relax during penetration.
Once you have adjusted, you can start trying other bolder positions.

Games and Toys

If you are eager to try other types of anal stimulation, in our online store, you can find a lot of toys for anal stimulation,
such as anal balls, anal plugs, butt plugs, which you can find in different shapes and sizes.
You can also opt for different sets that contain different types of sex toys.
For beginners in the secrets of anal sex, we recommend sex toys that have a wider base, so as not to slip into the anal cavity.
You can also use those with string, or ring, to remove them safely and easily.
The question you are probably asking yourself right now is how to open the topic about sex toys with your partner.
One of the best solutions is to look at different sex toys together and discuss their benefits at the same time.
Healthy sexual relaxation is always based on communication and understanding.
If you are a beginner, we recommend small sex toys, such as anal plugs, or anal balls.
As I said earlier, the use of a lubricant is mandatory, and penetration must be done gradually and without haste, to enjoy a relaxing and pleasant sex game.
Adult1Shop wants you to have a healthy and active sex life, and as long as you follow our tips and recommendations, you will have a pleasant and relaxing experience.